SEX DESIRE ALL MAN HAVE

Having your partner open up about his fantasies is always a little bit harder than it would seeming your partner open up about his fantasies is always a little bit harder than it would seem.

1. HE LIKES IT WHEN YOU’RE DIRECT.

While he might act like he knows exactly what's up, no one ever wished for *less* direction in bed. Save the ambiguity for pre-hookup sexing, and don’t be afraid to ask for what you really want.

If you’re worried about offending him (trust, you're not), just focus on the positives to tell him what you are and aren’t into. Don't be afraid of telling him, “Ehh that’s not doing anything for me,” but also “I really liked it when you were doing this before,” will help send a message, too. Positive reinforcement always works wonders. "Tell him how good it feels when he does something right, or remind him of a technique that always gets you off,If he's not giving you enough foreplay, ask him to use his hand or mouth to warm you up, saying that you want to draw out the experience."

2. HE LOVES ALL THE VISUALS.

For men, what they see is almost as good as what they get, so make sure to give him an eyeful.

3. HE WANTS YOU TO FEEL CONFIDENT ABOUT WHAT YOU LIKE IN BED.

Being open about what you like, even if you're worried about what someone might think, is the best way to connect with each other  in bed. Don’t be ashamed that he might think it’s “weird” that you need a vibrator to get off, or if you’ve always wanted to go dutch on a set of bed restraints. "Women are often afraid to get naughty in a relationship, because they don't want to shatter any 'good girlfriend' image he has or they don't want him to think they're weird,But men want to see that no-holds-barred side of you ,they just don't want to offend you by asking for it.

4. HE WANTS TO MIX THINGS UP.

Repetition can make once sex life feel "meh." So be open to varying things in bed. Any change in speed, pressure, or position will make the act more interesting and pleasurable.

5. HE WANTS YOU TO DOMINATE HIM.

Telling your partner that he can’t talk, touch, or even move unless he’s told to. Tell him if he disobeys you or doesn’t follow your directions, he’ll be punished. Boss him around a little, and tell him how you want him to touch you, what to say, and direct his every move. Watch him squirm and remind him from time to time that you’re in control.

When you’re in doubt, talk about it.

Above all, to have good sex, you need to be able to have good, honest communication. If you’re unsure how she’s feeling, just ask.